So much of life can be lived on auto-pilot, can feel "good enough". People will tell you to be satisfied with the norm. But you can be intentional about your choices, curate a life you love, and leave a lasting legacy. I've been working towrds this for decades, and it's a lifelong journey.
If you're not defining your space, someone else is defining it for you. Nothing would make me happier than to help you curate the space you're inhabiting.